Today is the biggest step in the adoption process... The signing of the surrenders by the birth parents. Until this is done, the birth parents can change their mind. I can't imagine that feeling of getting this far and the adoption failing. You can be out a lot of money with nothing to show in the end. It's all based on a signature. Ink on paper that will change your life and the birth families life forever.
Originally the birthmom was to sign at 9:30am CST. I could feel my heart racing at work as this time approaches. I used my heart rate monitor app on my phone and it was 114! I kept forgetting to breathe and I was out of breath. Felt like the beginings of a panic attack. I took slow deep breaths to ease the stress. 10:30 they call and tell me they are both signing at 12:30. UGH I was already worked up and now I have to wait more!
I kept on with work, luckily we were busy. Time was going yet still felt like forever. 12:15 I head home for lunch. 12:30 approaches; everyone is on edge and counting the seconds. Wesley doesn't realize how big of a family he has. So many people are following his story on FB. 12:45 comes and so do all the txt msgs and posts on FB. No I have not heard anything. I was getting overwhelmed with all the people asking. I was already stressed enough! I do appreciate everyone rooting for him and us. He is going to be one well loved and spoiled baby!
Almost 2 and no word. I head back to work and again we are busy. So happy we are busy but I just want to sit and stare at my phone until it rings.
Why haven't they called!? 5:00 I've had enough and I call. They were just about to call me. They were working on faxing the surrenders to the hospital! "They are signed!?" Yes they were!!! Yay! The biggest hill to climb is over!
Next step is to go before the judge and put him in our name!
The attny told me I should be able to be updated like previous so I waited until 9pm CST to call. This is when the new shift nurse has been working a few hours and has all the info. I call and the same one from the last two nights answer. I ask if the chart has been updated and she said it had not. When I told her they signed she was so excited for us. She did tell me some but not details. He is back on the bili light, they stopped his feedings again because he was having episodes of apnea (not breathing). This is normal for this stage of development. Sometimes they forget to breathe. They changed his breathing machine and he is doing much better. They ran some tests and all came back normal. She said he is a good boy and isn't fussy.
I plan to call in the morning and get this straight so I can get more info. I can't wait to see Wesley's name on his paper on his incubator.
Joe and I were so excited and had been waitin to buy anything bc we didn't know if it was going to happen. Joe really wanted Wes to have a suit so he found one in 3-6 mo and he had to buy it
No we just need an even to take him to lol. We also bought a couple preemie sets and a newborn set that had hippos on it. Hippos are Joe's favorite animal so it was a must have item!
Hopefully I have more updates tomorrow on his health. At least we can now rest knowing we are one huge step closer to Wesley benign ours!